The meaning and purpose of Love

During my early career days , when i joined Dupont i always hated love and i could not find why people fall in love? and why people who claim that they are in love are always in Pain?. But now at the age of 33 i find why love is so mysterious and why people fall in love. I believe there always a basic insticnt inside any person to be better and to develop oneself as a better human being, to give , to care, to nurture, to love, to strengthen, to nourish, to cherish, these are the activities that make you a better person and a better human being. That's why people fall in love so that they can raise their self on an emotional level. There is something always something which makes two peole fall in love. Common interest, feeling that he is the one or she is the one who can make my dreams come true. Creation and demolition and recreation is the inevitable rule of the nature, and that keeps happening at macro as wll as micro level irrespective of we notice or not. The hunt to find oneself really starts with this four letter word: LOVE , into bracket all forms, bracket complete. period.